People still use the word masseuse, but most professionals in my field don’t love it, including me.
And there are good reasons for that!
I’ve been a massage therapist for over 17 years and here’s the truth: language shapes how people see our work. It affects how seriously our training, experience, and continued education are taken. So when someone calls me (or anyone in my profession) a masseuse, it hits differently than they think.
Why “Masseuse” Carries Baggage
Historically, the word masseuse became tangled up with the old “massage parlor” stereotypes. The kind linked to sexualized or illicit services. Even though that’s not what legitimate massage therapy is, the association stuck. Because of that, many therapists feel the word can undermine the professionalism of what we do.
It’s also a gendered term. Masseuse literally means a female who gives massages. Today, our field includes all genders, specialties and clinical backgrounds. A gendered, outdated term just doesn’t reflect that.
Why “Massage Therapist” is the Preferred (and correct) Term
Massage therapy today is a regulated, educated profession. Most therapists complete hundreds of training hours, maintain certifications, pursue continuing education, and follow strict ethics and boundaries.
“Massage therapist” reflects all of that. The skill, the training, the therapeutic intent, and the professionalism behind the work.
It’s not about being picky. It’s about being accurate.
A Small Shift Means A Lot
So the next time you refer to your appointment, just say massage therapist.
It honors the work, the education, and the care that goes into every session.
And if “masseuse” slips out, it’s okay. Most people say it out of habit.
I’ll simply smile, correct it and we’ll move on. No drama, just clarity and a great session ahead. 🙂
